Please think about it.
A child, who
has been protected and habitually given whatever he wanted, will develop an
"entitlement mentality" and will always put him first. He will be
ignorant of his parent's efforts. When he starts work, he will assume that
every person must listen to him, and when he becomes a manager, he will never
know the sufferings of his employees and will always blame others.
For this kind of a person, who may be good academically and maybe successful for a while, eventually he will not feel sense of achievement. He will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying our children instead?
You can let your children live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it.
After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person.
The most important things are that your children learn how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learn how to work with others to get things done.
For this kind of a person, who may be good academically and maybe successful for a while, eventually he will not feel sense of achievement. He will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying our children instead?
You can let your children live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it.
After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person.
The most important things are that your children learn how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learn how to work with others to get things done.
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